Tuesday, July 17, 2012

TMI Tuesday - 50 Shades of Grey

I want to preface this week's TMI by saying that I found Fifty Shades of Grey to be very very meh. The only thing that kept me going to the end of the first book was curiosity to find out if she did or didn't. The sex certainly wasn't keeping me there. There are so many many bloggers out there who do a much better job of getting me all wet than E.L. James ever will.

But that does not mean the TMI Tuesday is Meh. Truth is always much more interesting than fiction and TMI Tuesday is testament to that!!! So read our answers and then head on over to the TMI blog to check out some other real life stories.

  1. DARING: What are your 50 shades?





I know it isn't 50 different things but these images are things that really get me going.


Jake's Answers

1. I enjoy the idea that my partner wants to inflict pain on me that:
a) makes me cruious
b) is titillating and sexually arousing
c) that leaves me screaming and / or crying because that's the way I like it

I like b) because I like a good spanking but I don't like to make someone cry in pain.


2. Do you like being forced to dress or act in a way that is humiliating? If yes please describe. If no, why not?

I couldn't say yes or no because I have never put myself in a situation where it is likely to happen. 
3. Do you like seeing bruises, scars, or marks that were caused during sex on either you or your partner?

I like having scratches and whip marks being left on me.

4. Would you like to be forced to do sexual things that you don't necessarily like to do?

Probably if I could think of any sexual thing that I don't normally like to do.  

5. Do you want to be forced to watch your lover with someone else?

Yes even though I do watch Gemma with other partners often. I guess the scenario would be more like she ties me up and has sex with another man without my prior permission forcing me to watch the whole thing.

6. What dirty (sometimes inappropriate) things do you like to say to your sexual partner?

Sometimes I talk to her about watching her with other people. We sometimes talk about our fantasies that involve gang bangs and other things like cum.


Bonus: Finish this statement:

I like being powerful in bed because I am not usually so it feels good to explore my dominant side and use my whip.

Gemma's Answers

1. I enjoy the idea that my partner wants to inflict pain on me that:
a) makes me cruious
b) is titillating and sexually arousing
c) that leaves me screaming and / or crying because that's the way I like it

Definitely b). There is nothing more arousing than a well placed spank while in the throes of passion. Couple it with a firm grip on my hair and it is great. I will say though if you are going to do this kind of stuff you have to mean it.

2. Do you like being forced to dress or act in a way that is humiliating? If yes please describe. If no, why not?

No this is not for me. I like to dress to please in a way that makes me alluring to my partner or potential partners. This may mean I wear something I don't necessarily like, feel comfortable in or choose for myself but if the purpose was purely for humiliation then no it is not for me.

3. Do you like seeing bruises, scars, or marks that were caused during sex on either you or your partner?

Sometimes yes. I don't find the redness of a through spanking that attractive but I do like the sight of long red fingernail marks down Mr Fix It's back. Mainly because I know he likes it so much.

4. Would you like to be forced to do sexual things that you don't necessarily like to do?

This question is a challenging one for me. I am quite strong willed (yeh whoda thunk it) and so I generally don't like being told to do something I don't want to do. BUT I am all for self improvement and so the IDEA of having a sexual partner that can dominate me and make me want to do things that push my boundaries is quite attractive.

5. Do you want to be forced to watch your lover with someone else?

Well this is quite a moot question for me. I regularly watch Jake with another person in a completely voluntary capacity. A thing that I would probably find quite stimulating would be to watch him with another man while I was restrained to be a spectator only or to perhaps be restrained to record him on film with another woman or man or both.

6. What dirty (sometimes inappropriate) things do you like to say to your sexual partner?

Something that never fails to get Jake going is for me to whisper to him, "Would you like to see my pussy filled with his cum?" When we really get into the fantasy I will describe to him the cum running down my leg.

Bonus: Finish this statement:

I like being powerful in bed because power is the ultimate turn on. There is nothing more sensual than sitting astride a naked man who is bound and teasing hime with the sight, smell and accasional touch of your body.




2 comments:

  1. fantabulous pics there, very hot, especially the foot one

    that's especially hot for me when fingernails are stuck on my back, that's the good pain

    "cum running down my leg", oh yes!

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  2. Your intro to this post, featuring your thoughts on 50 Shades of Grey, was great to read. I read the first chapter and a half or so, then gave up. Later I skipped through it in the hopes that the writer's style would get better. It didn't (in my opinion, anyway).

    We love Jake's #4. It must be nice to have few limits, if any! We doubt we'll ever get there ourselves. And the bonus answer is great; we love that sort of versatility.

    Regarding Gemma's #1, Jill is mad at herself for forgetting to mention hair-pulling in her own answer. She loves that. And your answer to #2 is right up her alley. She feels the same way. And we both loved the "Would you like to see my pussy filled with his cum?" bit.

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